Thursday, December 13, 2012
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Fading
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Each time I sit down and try to write about this, my eyes
well up with tears. Thinking about it makes
my heart feel as if it’s being wrung out. Putting such sorrow into
words is almost unbearable, but I feel that I need to.
My grandmother, the person who single-handedly brought us
up and taught us the most valuable lessons in life, is fading away from us. That
fiery, cantankerous woman of abrasive opinions and imperious wisdom, the parent
I grew up with, is rapidly, painfully disappearing, leaving only a silhouette of
who she was. Her abrupt mental and physical decline came as a surprise to
us. Perfectly fine just a couple of
months ago, she’s now altered and beyond our reach.
I knew that she’s changed when she stopped nagging me
about my leaving the fold. She’s grown so thin and frail and her memory is
almost completely gone. She doesn’t even recognize me if I don’t introduce
myself. Whenever I visit her at my mother’s place, she tells me how she hates
it there and begs me to accompany her to travel back home to Baguio. I try to explain to her that she can no
longer live alone. Imploring her to
continue living with my mother so she’ll be surrounded with family and taken
care of has become a mournful litany that falls on deaf, uncomprehending ears.
For the past few years we paid her a visit only once or twice
a year. Every time I give her a call she never fails to ask me when our next
visit will be. Now I regret all those years that we, wrapped up in our own lives,
have taken her for granted. Why didn’t I spend more time with her before? Why
didn’t I talk to her when my words could still have left some meaning in her
mind? It is a sad, horrible truth that
she’d be gone from us shortly. And I wish that through that haze of confusion, she’d
recognize us, her grandchildren who have failed so miserably in showing her how
much we love her.
Monday, December 10, 2012
Best Moments in India and Nepal
Monday, December 10, 2012
Monday, December 3, 2012
When being in love has burned away
Monday, December 3, 2012
Love is a temporary madness. It
erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make
a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together
that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love
is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the
promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every
second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is
kissing every cranny of your body. No, don't blush, I am telling you some
truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do. Love
itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is
both an art and a fortunate accident.
~ Louis de Bernières, Captain Corelli’s Mandolin, 1994
Friday, November 23, 2012
Getting a Henna Tattoo in Pahar Ganj
Friday, November 23, 2012
A fan of Indian movies, I always wanted to know how henna is applied on the hands. So I got a mehndi (henna tattoo) in Delhi's backpacker area, Pahar Ganj, and this is the story:
Friday, November 16, 2012
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
The Agony and Ecstasy of Travel
Tuesday, November 13, 2012

In just a few days in Delhi we managed to be accosted by touts, ripped off, scammed, pickpocketed and taken advantage of. We chased trains, got lost and fell short of reaching a summit. In Nepal’s international airport, we—along with hundreds of others--had to line up for several hours to secure a visa and get through the countless security checks. The supposedly six-hour scenic bus ride from Pokhara to Kathmandu turned out to be a 12-hour hair-raising, armchair-clenching ordeal. At a steep, hairpin turn along the Prithvi Highway our bus collided with another vehicle, an accident not so different from the one we got into in Arequipa a year ago.
So why did I put up with all
these? Why do we go to places that would surely expose us to danger and
uncertainty? Why didn’t I just pack a bikini, laze on a beach and sip piña
colada all day long? It is all for the love of travel and the agony and ecstasy
that go with it. The misery of travel is
negligible compared to the potpourri of discoveries, the mélange of
perspectives and the medley of life-affirming experiences that I gain from the
road.
Life on the road has taught me
a lot of things. In those hours I spent in long flights, inevitable airport
queues, endless security checks and cramped and bumpy bus rides, where a high
tolerance for boredom is required, I can’t but learn how to be patient. Adrift in the chaos of foreign cities, thrown
upon my own resources and relentlessly barraged with unfamiliar sights, sounds,
smells and textures, I learned how to think on my feet.
The comforts of home that I am
inured with are rarely present on the road – a clean toilet, a comfortable bed,
home cooked food, silence, personal space, paved streets, grocery stores. These things that I usually take for granted I
now value more. Away from the familiar and comfortable, I learned to endure
discomfort and thrive in privation. On the road, stripped bare of everything superfluous,
I discovered that I can live without life’s accoutrements.
Traveling makes me look at the
world in different ways. Staying in a
foreign country and interacting with locals gave me a glimpse of their culture,
how they look at and deal with what life has given them. For instance, while talking to a hired driver
in Delhi, I learned that the price of the meal I had at KFC is higher than his
day’s pay. He then proceeded to beg for a tip. It was very humbling. It made me
question the things I put so much value in; it made me despair over why the
world is as it is today.
Climbing a mountain in the
dark and then watching Himalayan peaks gloriously turn gold as the sun rose
over a small Nepali town gave me a surge of affirmation. In those radiant hours of the morning my
life’s worries seemed to dissolve away from around me. Amid that world of breathtaking beauty, I
felt content, as though I had set off from Manila and traveled for weeks to be
there, on that mountain, in that moment, with the person I love, simply waiting
for the sun to rise. It was during that and
similar other moments when I realized that travel is truly life affirming.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Sidewalks
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
It was a delight to come home
and see newly constructed sidewalks in my neighborhood. Was I gone that long that they were able to
make spanking new sidewalks and fix
the drainage system? I wondered. Few things impress me, but this one did. The
elevated walkway looked so fresh, clean and inviting that I felt like skipping
as I walked along the length of it.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Monday, November 5, 2012
Suspended
Monday, November 5, 2012
I feel as if I’m floating, suspended between a
wistful nostalgia for the magnificence of the past several weeks’ adventure and
the harsh realities of the world I came back to. As the plane landed yesterday, I felt that
familiar sickening drop in my belly - a reminder that happy days are, yet
again, over. Memories can never fill the void, but they’re all I have.
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Excitement
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Now that I (finally!) got my visa, I don’t
have to rein in my excitement anymore. I can let it to rule my life for the
next several weeks. I can even start packing!
I don’t know what I’m most excited about
though. Is it experiencing the agony and splendor of a month long travel with D
once again? Or seeing the majesty of Taj Mahal? Or getting deep into different
cultures? Or trekking in the Himalayas? Or joining in the communal breaking of
bread at the Golden Temple? Maybe it is the idea of being able to get away and
escape to another word. Or the thrill of
actually visiting the country that I fell in love with through the pages of
Salman Rushdie’s Midnight’s Children:
The monster in
the streets has begun to roar, while in Delhi a wiry man is saying, “…At the
stroke of the midnight hour, while world sleeps, India awakens to life and
freedom…” And beneath the roar of the monster there are two more yells, cries,
bellows, the howls of children arriving in the world, their unavailing protests
mingling with the din of independence which hangs saffron and green in the
night sky—“A moment comes, which comes but rarely in history, when we step out
from the old to the new; when an age ends; and when the soul of a nation long
suppressed finds utterance…”
Monday, September 17, 2012
Transitory
Monday, September 17, 2012
My journal has
become a mélange of pent-up emotions struggling to break free, of spur-of-the-moment
ideas and fragmentary thoughts blended into one confused mess. It’s crammed
with slips of paper written with disjointed paragraphs and phrases like “the
buffering effect of trite language,” “the curse of Tiresias,” “a roving
bacchanalia” and “the killing of blastocysts” - ideas I must have intended as
topics for an article or as objects of curiosity that I wanted to explore. Some made me laugh, a few made me wonder. But one
thing struck me the most as I read through these random notes: I cannot recall when
and why I wrote most them.
This, for
example:
Again
It’s the same old feeling once again, when you just want to crawl under the covers and muffle every sight and sound. The voice in your head just won’t stop, and you need somebody to talk to, but you feel as though you’ve already exhausted that privilege to be listened to with your cyclic bouts of depression and your life’s endless drama. You thought you’d make it to the end of the year without plunging into these depths. You were wrong.
It is not dated,
and I cannot remember what made me write it. I just know that I felt so dejected
then that writing about it would somehow make me feel better. It must have. Or,
by just going through the motions of life and letting things be, I must have moved
past that wretched state without my noticing it. But how can I not remember something
that obviously affected me in such an agonizing way before? The hopes and frustrations that consumed me in
the past are present now merely as memories. So many things in life are transitory, even
emotions. Every time I feel like I’m not
going to make it, I always do. The moment passes, and life goes on.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Of Cell Phones and Bees
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Is it stubborn
to refuse to use a mobile phone and not be within constant reach of everyone anytime,
all the time? People find it peculiar when I say that I have a phone but I
leave it at home, ignored and unattended and used only as needed.
‘Why?’ They
ask. ‘Because cell phone signals kill bees,’ I half-jokingly reply.
But it’s not
really that. For several years now I don’t
find it necessary to have my mobile with me all the time. Phones encumber people,
like me, who try to lead obscure and unfettered lives. That I have to be at
someone’s beck and call beyond office hours and even during vacations is something
that I don’t understand. But some simply cannot be out of reach even for a
while and they welcome intrusions on their private time. That they need to be accessible
at all times shows how busy or in demand they are. When I see people devotedly attuned to their
phones, neither engaged nor disengaged in conversations but only paying
continuous partial attention, I’m glad I’m not that busy yet sorry for the busy bees.
Saturday, September 8, 2012
The vanity of the present
Saturday, September 8, 2012
History has been described as one damn thing after another. The remark can be seen as a warning against a pair or temptations but, duly warned, I shall cautiously flirt with both. First, the historian is tempted to scour the past for patterns that repeat themselves; or at least, following Mark Twain, to seek reason and rhyme for everything. This appetite for pattern affronts those who insist that, as Mark Twain will also be found to have said, 'History is usually a random, messy affair,' going nowhere and following no rules. The second connected temptation is the vanity of the present: of seeing the past as aimed at our own time, as though the characters in history's play had nothing better to do with their lives than foreshadow us.
~ Richard Dawkins. The Ancestor's Tale: A Pilgrimage to the Dawn of Evolution. 2004
Friday, September 7, 2012
One September Morning
Friday, September 7, 2012
What better way to start the month than to
spend some lovely time with a friend whom I haven’t seen for years?
It was a beautiful Saturday morning, with
that fresh, crisp air this time of the year brings. The glaring sidewalks, host to the mundane
concerns of every day, are atypically empty. The buildings loomed large and
imposing, casting shadows on the streets but unable to dim the brightness
of that day. As I walked towards the
coffee shop, with each step I could feel myself being lifted from the languor and
listlessness I’ve sunk into. And then I
saw my friend seated under an umbrella in what looked like an oasis in the
middle of a concrete jungle, sipping coffee and radiating that openness and
ease of manner that I find endearing. In
that instant I felt that, despite everything, life is still good.
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Monday, August 27, 2012
so i'll reign in my thoughts
Monday, August 27, 2012
I have to restrain myself from writing down every little thing. I feel I could take note of every little thought and describe every molecule of this cell and every moment of my life. I have plenty of time. I have all day. But only so much paper. and only so much faith in your patience, so I'll reign in my thoughts.
~ Denis Johnson, Tree of Smoke, 2007
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Too Early
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
And so I applied for my visa to India today, only to find
out that wanting things organized and prepared two months in advance is not a
very good idea.
I took the metro to Ayala and from there walked more than
a kilometer to the visa application center, BLS International at One Corporate
Plaza along Arnaiz Avenue. An hour
early, I didn’t mind the wait for I brought a book with me. Come 9 am, one of
the personnel checked my documents, announced that everything’s complete and
gave me a number. Glancing at my application form, she suggested that I change
the length of visa requested from 6 months to 2 months.
I waited some more. After 20 minutes, they called my
number. I approached the counter and handed over my documents to the same lady
who checked them earlier. She went through the documents once again. I told her that I cannot change the duration
of visa. Because the validity of an Indian visa starts from the date of issue, 2
months would be beyond my travel dates, which are in October and November. That’s
when she realized that I won’t be leaving till October. (She didn’t see it
while looking at my papers.) She then gave
back the documents and told me to come back in October. “You’re applying too early,” she said. “Well
I want everything in order the earliest possible so if ever I won’t be granted
a visa to India I can make alternative travel plans,” I said, curbing the urge
to argue for the virtues promptness and preparation. “Just come back a week before my departure
date. Visa processing takes only four days, anyway. We don’t know but the
embassy could give you a one-month visa, which you won’t be able to use given
your travel dates.” she replied. She has
a point there, I thought. But why would the embassy give a visa that obviously
would not correspond to the applicant’s travel dates?
If I wanted to wait till October to get my visa, I could
just go for the Tourist Visa on Arrival facility in New Delhi. This is one case where procrastination would
have helped. Disappointed that I didn’t
achieve what I set out to do, I walked all the way back home. If not a visa, at least I would get a good
exercise from this, I thought.
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Questions give us no rest
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
And questions give us no
rest. We know not why our curse makes us seek we know not what, ever and ever.
But we cannot resist it. It whispers to us that there are great things on this
earth of ours, and that we can know them if we try, and that we must know them.
We ask, why must we know, but it has no answer to give us. We must know that we
may know.
~ Ayn Rand, Anthem, 1938
Thursday, August 9, 2012
India-Nepal Trip Checklist
Thursday, August 9, 2012
Lists create order and make infinity comprehensible, or so says Umberto Eco. Perhaps that is why making a list of things
to be done helps whenever I’m obsessing about something. So here’s my TO DO
list before our trip to India and Nepal:
- Apply for three-week vacation leave (DONE)
- Purchase round-trip plane tickets to New Delhi and Kathmandu (DONE)
- Book hotel in New Delhi (DONE)
- Book hotel in Kathmandu (made reservation through email but still waiting for a reply)
- Make train reservation: New Delhi to Agra (DONE)
- Make train reservation: Agra to Jaipur (DONE)
- Make train reservation: Jaipur to New Delhi (DONE)
- Make train reservation: New Delhi to Amritsar (DONE)
- Make train reservation: Amritsar to Pathankot (DONE, but could only purchase waitlisted tickets)
- Make train reservation: Pathankot to New Delhi (DONE)
- Have 2x2 ID picture taken (DONE)
- Photocopy first page of passport (DONE)
- Fill out application for permission to re-enter India within a period of two months
- Fill out visa application
- Get a copy of bank certificate
- Apply for visa
- Book hotel in Jaipur
- Book hotel in Amritsar
- Book hotel in McLeod Ganj
- Book hotel in Pokhara
Monday, August 6, 2012
Choosing What We Pay Attention To
Monday, August 6, 2012
There is something about David Foster Wallace’s
writings that will always resonate with me. I reread his commencement address
to the graduates of Kenyon College in 2005 and his words made me think about
what I think about:
“Twenty years after my graduation, I have
come gradually to understand that the liberal arts cliché about teaching you
how to think is actually shorthand for a much deeper, more serious idea:
learning how to think really means learning how to exercise some control over
how and what you think. It means being
conscious and aware enough to choose what you pay attention to and to choose
how you construct meaning from experience.
Because if you cannot exercise this kind of choice in adult life, you
will be totally hosed.”
His words make so much sense to me; yet when
I think about it, choosing what we pay attention to is not that easy. Our mind wanders all the time and oftentimes
I’m not even aware that I am already dwelling on the things that I do not
really want to think about. How can I
exercise vigilance over my thoughts when there are times that I want to simply relinquish consciousness? Choosing what to pay attention to and understanding
why I need to pay attention to it need moment-to-moment effort. But still, I try.
For now I want to pay attention to finding
the right words to finish this post.
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Crap
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Me: A paper has already been written about that.
Him: Do you mean this (while glancing at the paper)? This is crap. Who wrote this?
Me: I did (while looking at him straight in the eye).
Him: I’m sorry. This is so awkward (his face reddening in shame).
Me: It’s fine. I’m professional enough not to take offense at your remark. You obviously have not read the paper so… (shrugged)
Him: I browsed it. I’m so sorry. This is so awkward.
Me: So what makes it crap?
Him: (bowed his head and said nothing)
Him: (after a long and uncomfortable silence) I really want to apologize. It was unprofessional of me to say that.
Me: Forget about it. It’s nothing, really. I know myself too well to let such things bother me. So it's crap. You can throw it away. You don't have to use it. Let's just move on, okay?
Him: I’m new here and what I did was unethical.
Me: Then learn from it.
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Sweaty and Fascinated
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
I must have looked ridiculous last night, doing exercises with my puny 3-kg dumbbells while watching other women lift weights that are more than double their own weight, but I was having too much fun from the absurdity of what I'm doing to care about appearing silly or think about anything else. It was already past midnight when the women's 58kg division weightlifting competition ended. Through it all, I was glued to the TV, sweaty and fascinated.
Monday, July 30, 2012
Had had enough of lying
Monday, July 30, 2012
Humans themselves are the source of good and evil, I thought. We must think for ourselves; We are responsible for our own morality. I arrived at the conclusion that I couldn't be honest with others unless I was honest with myself. I wanted to comply with the goals of religion, which are to be a better and more generous person, without suppressing my will and forcing it to obey inhuman rules. I would no longer lie, to myself or others. I had had enough of lying. I was no longer afraid of the Hereafter.
~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali, Infidel, 2008
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
Fluency
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
If I could, I would have stayed at home and watched the Justice Secretary being interviewed live on TV for the position of
Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, but I have my own interview to
conduct so I had to hurry back to the office.
To say that she answered the questions of the Judicial and Bar Council
panel very well would be an understatement. I marvel at her articulateness, her
fluency, qualities I—as well as my applicants--regrettably lack. Propelled by my love of words and language, I
can’t help but admire people like the Justice Secretary who can verbalize their
thoughts as coherent as she did.
Thursday, July 19, 2012
I was trying to write then
Thursday, July 19, 2012
I was trying to write then and I found the
greatest difficulty, aside from knowing truly what you really felt, rather than
what you were supposed to feel, and had been taught to feel, was to put down
what really happened in action; what the actual things were which produced the
emotion that you experienced.
~ Ernest Hemingway, Death in the Afternoon, 1932
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
A Good Night's Sleep
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
There is something in that pillow-laden, slightly
sagging, dimly lit top bunk in my mother’s house that never fails to give me a
good night’s sleep. Whenever I spend the night, I immediately fall into a deep,
uninterrupted slumber and wake up with the suspicion that my siblings must have
again hidden the stairs that I use to climb down the bed, as they—full of playful
mischief--often do. With disguised merriment, I anticipate those pranks they
pull on me, just as much as I could count on that huge mug of taho (tofu yogurt) that my mother buys
for me from the neighborhood vendor every time I’m there. Whenever I sit in that sun-filled kitchen with
the delicious smell of morning cooking wafting through the air, chatting with
my mother and waiting for my siblings to wake up, I feel invigorated, as though
I could take on the world.
It must be the cool, fresh air blowing from
the corn fields that lulls me to sleep; or the comforting tightness of the
narrow bed weighed down by various stuffed animals and half a dozen pillows; or
sheer tiredness from trying to stay awake and refusing to let a wonderful day to end; or it must be the soothing clasp of family that always makes for a good
night’s sleep.
Monday, July 16, 2012
Kaunti na Lang
Monday, July 16, 2012
May mga pagkakataong nasasabi ko na lang sa kanya, “kunin mo na ako dito,” gamit ang tinig na tila nagsusumamo o nagpapasaklolo. Ito man ay dala ng kahinaan o ng matinding kalungkutan, ang tanging nais ko ay makasama siya kahit panandalian lamang. Nakakainip ang maghintay, ngunit nakakatuwa ring isipin na malapit na, kaunti na lang.
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
the reins of life slipped from his hands
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
He felt utterly, utterly overcome - as if he didn't care what became of him any further. He didn't care whether he were hit by a bomb, or whether he himself threw the next bomb, and hit somebody. He just didn't care anymore about anything in life or death. It was as if the reins of life slipped from his hands, and he would let everything run where it would, so long as it did run.
~ Aaron's Rod, D.H. Lawrence, 1922
Monday, July 9, 2012
West to Midwest
Monday, July 9, 2012
Searching for a house, our house, has proven to be truly heartbreaking. For the second time, we’ve lost that property we thought was already ours. Who would have known that by missing to tick a box you would lose a house? It sounds trivial and arbitrary, but it’s exactly what happened. The listing agent failed to put an X mark on one of the boxes in the document. It lead to the bid being cancelled and dashed hopes on our part. We tried to submit another offer, but they’ve awarded it to the next in line.
Pinning our hopes on the overly volatile housing market of Las Vegas, we realized, is a terrible idea. And so we decided to expand our search towards the Midwest. I would have wanted to live in an area where it’s warm, where there’s a sizeable Filipino community, where the mountains are just a short drive away. But I can trade all of those for a place where I can jog along the lake, grow a flower and vegetable garden in my backyard, walk to the library whenever I want and be with the man I love.
And so the hunt continues. May luck be on our side this time.
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Pick-me-up
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
The last time he called me at work was to tell me that he just
jumped on a plane bound for Manila and is waiting for me to get home. It was such
a delightful surprise that I could hardly contain my glee. I rushed home, and
we spent the holidays together. This
morning when he called I can’t help but ask if—or wish that—he’s back in the Philippines.
Sadly, he is not, but the call itself made my day. For solitary souls like me, a
simple phone call works like a pick-me-up.
Monday, July 2, 2012
Coated With Slime
Monday, July 2, 2012
How do you deal with people who are in the habit of making pronouncements
that are at once grandiose and vacuous? They often say things that are meant to
make you feel good but lack the sincerity to pull it off. When every utterance
is tinted with posturing and affectation, can you still get through to what
they really want to say? When you look at them and see their smiles coated with slime, how do you suppress the disgust from showing on your face? Or should you?
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Bursting with Hemingway
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Current obsession: Ernest
Hemingway
It started with my watching a
BBC documentary on Hemingway’s travels, Hemingway
Adventure, where Michael Palin revisited the places and passions that
defined Hemingway and his works. Those places include Chicago and Michigan, his
birthplace and childhood haunts; Italy in WWI, where his experiences as a volunteer Red
Cross ambulance driver became the basis for his novel A Farewell to Arms; Spain, where he translated his experiences into
a manifesto on bullfighting, Death in the
Afternoon, the novel For Whom the
Bell Tolls, and the propaganda film Spanish
Earth; Africa, which inspired The
Snows of Kilimanjaro and The Green
Hills of Africa; Florida’s Key West where they continue to hold annual Papa
Hemingway lookalike contests; Cuba where he wrote The Old Man and the Sea, which won him the 1954 Nobel Prize for
literature; and the American West where he spent his last days in search of
peace and solitude.
As the show took me to the
places where Hemingway has been, I sensed that same jolt of excitement I felt
when I first encountered Hemingway’s work, For
Whom the Bell Tolls, eighteen years ago. He got me then. I became an
instant fan. And as I learn more about Hemingway, my regard for his work and
his attitude towards life has turned into something akin to an obsession. Watching the HBO movie Hemingway and Gellhorn did not help either: it just increased my
fascination with the man.
I can talk for hours and days
about Hemingway and his novels, but I confine myself to just writing about him,
instead. Who would listen to a lengthy discourse on the author, anyway? Not
even my friends would. My colleagues haven’t even heard of him. And they are not interested in a dead guy who’s famous for writing a story about an old
fisherman who had gone 84 days without catching a fish.
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Travel Resolutions: What Have I Achieved so Far?
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Half the year has passed, yet
I’ve achieved only one of the ten travel resolutions that I made at the start of
2012:
See more of my country
I remember that moment when,
realizing how inexcusably ignorant I am of the wonderful places in the
Philippines, I resolved to discover the land of my birth. And I‘m proud to say that for the past
several months I did just that. I was able to climb three mountains in
different parts of the country - Mt. Pulag in Northern Luzon, Mt. Pico de Loro in
Southern Luzon and Mt. Pinatubo in Central Luzon. To fully describe the beauty and grandeur of
those places is to fail – a thing I won’t even attempt. And to see more of my
country is to discover unplumbed parts of myself.
Half the year has passed, yet
I’ve achieved only one of my ten travel resolutions. It simply means that I
have the rest of the year to revel in the delights of making the other nine
real.
(Response to the Indie TravelChallenge 2012 Week 26 Prompt: “Look back at the travel resolutions you made
for the first week of Indie Travel Challenge. What have you achieved so far?
What is something that you are proud of?”)
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Monday, June 25, 2012
the last dream of my soul
Monday, June 25, 2012
~ Charles Dickens,
A Tale of Two Cities, 1859
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Swimsuits and Memories
Thursday, June 21, 2012
My friends and I have started
planning for another getaway. We haven’t
decided on the exact location, but it would most probably involve some sun,
sand and surf. What a perfect excuse to
buy another swimsuit, I told myself. And so, indulging my vanity, I did. I bought a two-piece, green and black twist
bandeau. Its sight gives me that extra
push whenever I’m too lazy to exercise.
Embarrassing as it may sound,
I admit that I collect swimsuits. One-piece, two-piece, bikini, monikini, tankini,
bandeau, maillot, halter top, string top – I have them in different styles. It’s fun to look at each of them and remember
where I wear them for. Each swimsuit I
associate with a happy memory, a fun vacation, or a wonderful place: the brown,
polka-dotted two-piece that I was wearing when my boyfriend and I walked along
the shores of Tanjung Aru in Penang as the sun expired; the pink floral maillot
that I was in when my eyes got seriously infected while snorkeling with the
girls; the floral swim dress that I wore when my friends and I had a marvelous
time island hopping in Boracay; the yellow tankini that lent me some needed propriety
in the company of family in more conservative areas in the country; the blue
and green bandeau top that I wore while watching people frolicking in the sands
of Pattaya. Every piece is special because
of the happy times that went with it.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Something that tastes good can also be good for you
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
I recently read a compelling article from The New Yorker about whether or not there is still a clear distinction
between commercial fiction and literary fiction. The author argues that “for the longest time,
there was little ambiguity between literary fiction and genre fiction: one was good for
you, one simply tasted good.” And that distinction is now starting to collapse:
“the presumed superiority of one type of book over another no longer passes
unquestioned.”
So what distinguishes
commercial or genre fiction from literary fiction, anyway?
Literary fiction is “elegantly written, lyrical, and layered"
and focuses
on creating "introspective,
in-depth character studies" of "interesting, complex and
developed" characters. (Source) Purportedly of less literary value, commercial
fiction relies on formula, convention and uncomplicated prose. Whereas
literary fiction is character-driven, commercial fiction is plot-driven. Or so
they say.
Whether or not there is an abiding
distinction between the two, I simply don’t care. I read both kinds. As discussed in a podcast I regularly listen
to, it is a question of quality, not taxonomy. There can be art in both the pulpy and the
highfalutin; there is brilliance in both literary fiction and genre fiction. It
doesn’t matter if a novel appeals to lowbrow or highbrow tastes, I will read
it as long as it is absorbing and written well.
What keeps me absorbed
nowadays is the third book in George R.R Martin’s A Song of Ice of Fire dystopic science fiction series. Prior to that,
I was engrossed in a collection of essays on political and cultural topics written
by Christopher Hitchens. And before reading those essays I went from a chic lit
take on the life of a former US First Lady to E.M. Forster's masterpiece about the British Raj to Jonathan Safran Foer’s
nonfiction account of factory farming to a Stephen King horror classic to Mark
Twain’s adventures through the Wild West in the 1860s. There is something truly satisfying in sampling
all categories and genres of the written word. Shifting from fiction to
nonfiction, from one genre to another and from commercial to literary fiction gives me different ways of looking at the world.
It must be that something that tastes good can also be good for you.
Labels:
sense and sensibility,
the uncommon reader
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Palasak
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Magkahalong yamot at pagkamangha ang aking naramdaman habang kapiling ang isang grupo ng kabataan paakyat ng bulkan. Isang dekada lang naman ang tanda ko sa kanila, ngunit tila hindi ko maunawaan ang kanilang usapan. Ganito na nga ba ang tipo ng pag-uusap na palasak sa kasalukuyan, o ako ba ay nasanay lamang sa sinauna? Lahat ng kanilang pangugusap ay nagsisimula sa katagang ‘tang-ina na binudburan pa ng mas makukulay na salita na panunungayaw kung ituring ng iba. Sa tono at wika ng kanilang pananalita lahat ng bakas ng pagpipitagan ay tuluyan ng nawala. Ang mga salitang ginagamit ba nila ang dahilan o ang kawalan ng katuturan at paggalang sa kanilang usapan? Marahil ako lamang ay nagiging mapanuri at mapanghusga o sadyang tuluyan nang tumatanda.
Monday, June 11, 2012
Dormitory
Monday, June 11, 2012
Carrying pillows, clothes, books,
coat hangers, toiletries, what looks like a month’s supply of food and
everything else our youngest sister could possibly need to live comfortably
away from home, we trooped to her dormitory located inside the campus. She’s
about to enter college, and it amazes me how excited she is about the whole
thing. The idea of living among
strangers surrounded by ceaseless movement and babble makes me shudder. Having to be gracious, nice and easy to live
can be such an arduous task.
Maybe that’s why I’m in my
mid-thirties and still alone and impossible to live with. I never learned—nor even tried—to coexist
with people outside my family circle. Living
a few kilometers from the university, I had no reason to live in a dormitory,
and having the same set of friends from high school eliminated the need to make
new friends in college. Twenty years later,
I still find it difficult to establish new friendships and be with people. If
friendships are built on shared interests, how can I make any when it seems
like I’m the only one who cares about the things I care about?
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
He had better be able to make the lady laugh
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
"The chief task in life that a
man has to perform is that of impressing the opposite sex, and Mother Nature
(as we laughingly call her) is not so kind to men. In fact, she equips many
fellows with very little armament for the struggle. An average man has just
one, outside chance: He had better be able to make the lady laugh. Making them
laugh has been one of the crucial preoccupations of my life. If you can
stimulate her to laughter—I am talking about that real, out-loud, head-back,
mouth-open-to-expose-the-full-horseshoe-of-lovely-teeth, involuntary, full, and
deep-throated mirth; the kind that is accompanied by a shocked surprise and a
slight (no, make that a loud) peal of delight—well, then, you have at least
caused her to loosen up and to change her expression. I shall not elaborate
further."
~ Christoper Hitchens, “Why Women
Aren’t Funny,” Arguably: Essays by Christopher Hitchens, 2011
Monday, June 4, 2012
House Hunting
Monday, June 4, 2012
A three-bedroom house with a backyard - that’s all we wanted. With the number of houses out in the market, it looked simple enough, yet house hunting proved to be more difficult than I thought it would—or should--be.
We thought we already had that mustard-colored two-storey house, but at the last minute, when everything appeared to go according to plan, it was snatched away from us. Offering a price higher than the house’s assessed market value seemed to be a good idea just to secure the house, but it turned out to be the opposite. Trusting our realtor’s word and exercising patience over glaring inefficiencies were errors in judgment that cost us that house. And we simply cannot battle a system that is operated by automation and built on bureaucratic principles.
But then again, maybe it’s simply not meant to be. That house was not for us.
It’s been months since we started the search, yet our dream house continues to be just a dream. I hope it won’t be for long. The search goes on, and each day we look forward to a new listing; we hope for our offer to be accepted; and we yearn to find that house that we can call ours.
Friday, June 1, 2012
What is home then?
Friday, June 1, 2012
What is home then, you might wonder? The place you first see daylight, or the place you choose for yourself? Or is it the someplace you just can’t keep going back to, though the air there’s grown less breathable, the future’s over, where they really don’t want you back, and where you once left on a breeze without a rearward glance?
~ Richard Ford, The Lay of the Land, 2006
Thursday, May 31, 2012
It’s almost 9 pm
Thursday, May 31, 2012
It’s almost 9 pm. I’ve been reading the whole day. My mind’s filled with words and ideas all muddled into a murky mess. Not another page, I told myself. What does it take to reorder my thoughts and bring some semblance of clarity to confusion? A break, perhaps. Or an invigorating conversation. A distractingly funny movie, possibly. A good night’s sleep, definitely.
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Lame
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Book development’s done, and I’m currently idling away
the hours until the start of the new project.
I can now catch up on my Spanish lessons (where I’m stuck at conjugating
radical changing e to ie verbs); I can focus on training for our next mountain
adventure; I can also dedicate my mental faculties, deficient as they are, to
writing something less lame than this.
Monday, May 28, 2012
fascinating, bewitching, entrancing
Monday, May 28, 2012
If there is any
life that is happier than the life we led on our timber ranch for the next two
or three weeks, it must be a sort of life which I have not read of in books or
experienced in person. We did not see a human being but ourselves during the
time, or hear any sounds but those that were made by the wind and the waves,
the sighing of the pines, and now and then the far-off thunder of an avalanche.
The forest about us was dense and cool, the sky above us was cloudless and
brilliant with sunshine, the broad lake before us was glassy and clear, or
rippled and breezy, or black and storm tossed, according to Nature's mood; and
its circling border of mountain domes, clothed with forests, scarred with
landslides, cloven by canons and valleys, and helmeted with glittering snow,
fitly framed and finished the noble picture. The view was always fascinating,
bewitching, entrancing.
~ Mark Twain, Roughing It, 1872
Monday, May 21, 2012
How Can Something This Beautiful Be That Lethal?
Monday, May 21, 2012
The sun pounded mercilessly, defying the leaden landscape that surrounds me. A few minutes into the two-hour hike to the crater lake, I looked around, dazzled by the splendor left behind by destruction. Can this be the same volcano that caused such havoc to our country several years ago? I asked myself. How can something this beautiful be that lethal?
MT. PINATUBO
Location: Boundaries of Pampanga, Tarlac and Zambales
(15°08.4’ N, 120°21’ E)
(15°08.4’ N, 120°21’ E)
Elevation: 1.445 km (height
before eruption was 1.745 km)
Base
Diameter: 40
km
Caldera
Lake: Pinatubo Crater Lake (2 km in diameter and depth of 600 to 800
meters)
The second-largest volcanic eruption of this century, and by far the largest eruption to affect a densely populated area, occurred at Mount Pinatubo in the Philippines on June 15, 1991. The eruption produced high speed avalanches of hot ash and gas, giant mudflows, and a cloud of volcanic ash hundreds of miles across. The impacts of the eruption continue to this day. (Source)
The
former summit of the volcano was obliterated and replaced by a caldera 2.5 km (1.6 mi) wide. The highest point on
the caldera rim now stood 1,485 m (4,872 ft) above sea level, some
260 m (850 ft) lower than the pre-eruption summit. (Source)
A reported 847 people
were killed by the eruption mostly by roofs collapsing under the weight of
accumulated wet ash… In total, 364 communities and 2.1 million
people were affected by the eruption, with livelihoods and houses being damaged
or destroyed.… In addition to the severe damage sustained by these communities,
roads and communications were damaged or destroyed by pyroclastic flows and
lahar throughout the areas surrounding the volcanoes. (Source)
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
The Global Table
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Next time you sit down for a meal, imagine that there are nine other people sitting with you at the table, and that together you represent all the people on the planet. Organized by nations, two of your tablemates are Chinese, two Indian, and a fifth represents all the other countries in Northeast, South, and Central Asia. A sixth represents the nations of Southeast Asia and Oceana. A seventh represents sub-Saharan Africa, and an eighth represents the remainder of Africa and the Middle East. A ninth represents Europe. The remaining seat, representing the countries of South, Central, and North America…

~ Jonathan Safran Foer, Eating Animals, 2009
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Reclaiming Citizenship
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
I think that’s the surest sign that you’re a Filipino: You lay claim to it, and in doing so, help shape its meaning. (Carla Montemayor, Interaksyon)
It amazes me how excited he is to receive his Philippine passport. Maybe living in--and being a citizen of--another country for such a long time does that. Claiming once birth right becomes so important that one is willing to go through anything just to become a ‘Filipino’ once again – just like he did.
We were lining up to have our passports stamped at the entrance to Machu Picchu when I noticed him trying to hide his passport from our fellow trekkers. Later I asked him about it. He said that he wanted to be identified as a Filipino, and not another gringo. That is how proud he is of the country of his birth. Many US citizens can easily go to Peru, but only a few from a developing country like the Philippines can or do. And some Filipinos—both here and abroad—do not fully lay claim to and take pride in being Filipinos.
Monday, May 14, 2012
Stiff and Sore
Monday, May 14, 2012
I woke up feeling the aftermath of another great hike. Sore and stiff, my muscles and joints are screaming not in pain but in jubilation. All this pain is part of the splendor of another day outdoors doing what I love best.
hiking to the crater of Mt. Pinatubo |
Labels:
breathing lessons,
on the road,
Philippines
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Most of life is so dull that there is nothing to be said about it
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Most of life is so dull that there is nothing to be said about it, and the books and talk that would describe it as interesting are obliged to exaggerate, in the hope of justifying their own existence. Inside its cocoon of work or social obligation, the human spirit slumbers for the most part, registering the distinction between pleasure and pain, but not nearly as alert as we pretend. There are periods in the most thrilling day during which nothing happens, and though we continue to exclaim 'I do enjoy myself' or 'I am horrified' we are insincere. 'As far as I feel anything, it is enjoyment, horror' - it's no more than that really, and a perfectly adjusted organism would be silent.
~ E.M. Forster, A Passage to India, 1924
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Blankness
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
Here I go again. A deep, gathering blankness has taken
hold on me. I sit down and pick up my
pen, but I always end up staring at an empty piece of paper. Unsure of what to
say, devoid of fresh ideas and disinclined for the buffering effect of trite
language and worn-out sentiments, I give in to the clarity of silence, of words
left unarticulated.
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
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